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"My parents also separated due to infidelity and it had a similar effect on me, in that i decided i would never do that to somebody.I sometimes wonder why it doesnt affect others in the same way. I know of people whos parents separated in similar circumstances to mine, but now choose to be unfaithful in thier relationships. One of whom has even said, "you do as you see" and, "i did'nt know any different in my house whilst growing up." - surely if you witness first hand the pain infidelity causes, it makes you think twice about inflicting that pain on a partner? It crossed my mind it may be to do with the sex of the parent that cheats, for example in my experience it was my mother, and so maybe it was easier for me to relate to and see a future image of myself that i never wished to fulfill. Perhaps i will do post on this. And as for the girls that found your bad boy friends reputation attractive...you touched on it, they think they can change him. Women are extremely competative, and the opportunity to succeed i.e change a bad boy into a good man, where other women have failed, is a challenge. We all want to be the one that was worth changing for."
"My parents also separated due to infidelity and it had a similar effect on me, in that i decided i would never do that to somebody.I sometimes wonder why it doesnt affect others in the same way. I know of people whos parents separated in similar circumstances to mine, but now choose to be unfaithful in thier relationships. One of whom has even said, "you do as you see" and, "i did'nt know any different in my house whilst growing up." - surely if you witness first hand the pain infidelity causes, it makes you think twice about inflicting that pain on a partner? It crossed my mind it may be to do with the sex of the parent that cheats, for example in my experience it was my mother, and so maybe it was easier for me to relate to and see a future image of myself that i never wished to fulfill. Perhaps i will do post on this. And as for the girls that found your bad boy friends reputation attractive...you touched on it, they think they can change him. Women are extremely competative, and the opportunity to succeed i.e change a bad boy into a good man, where other women have failed, is a challenge. We all want to be the one that was worth changing for."
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"Yes we do agree on some things! and as it happens we share the same star sign.I saw your field trip suggestion, Camden, London is a great idea. I went to Camden market for the first time last year, but i was with a friend and her friend who lives nearby. I wish i had been able to explore it by myself and for longer than an afternoon. I think it is the type of place that i could have experienced much more just by standing still and observing my surroundings. Being pushed from one sex shop to another...well once you have seen one latex gimp mask youve seen them all ;-D"
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Dear Kimberley,
Indeed, we share the same star sign, which I guess is kinda cool. As far as the Camden in London I only went once and only for a day so I didn’t see everything that I wanted to. I didn’t even get into a sex shop but I promise not to drag you into any against your will… He he…. On the other hand, I found your suggestion very interesting as well and much better than mine I can say. A prison is surely a bad place, a very different and elusive world where you can come to face interesting-bad characters and situations. I surely enjoyed our chats as well as arguments through this module and I have to say that, I am a bit sad now we are towards the end. Hope to keep in touch and see each other soon for another debate…LOL
Friendly,
Mike
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